Hello, strangers! Yep, it’s been a bit since I’ve popped in. And yes, I have the typical excuse of “life has been crazy,” well, because it has been. I will have an update for you in the coming days. I’m currently enjoying my last week of maternity leave. I can’t believe how quickly it’s gone by. My heart is already breaking knowing what is waiting for me Monday morning. Ugh.
But, in the meantime, you can enjoy (yet again) my little love story. Linking up with Andrea!
You can find the most complete story of “us” on the “what makes us, us” page. For the sake of reminiscing, I’ll give you the highlights here!
Craig and I didn’t meet in the most conventional way – he happened to be dating my best friend at the time. There was zero romantic connection. I was dating someone else and I thought that Craig just talked…a lot. The kid had more energy than most people I’d ever met.
During our sophomore year of college, about 8 months after I met Craig, he and my friend had parted ways. But, when my friend’s father passed away – Craig and I stepped in to help her cope. Despite the fact they were no longer dating, I watched Craig serve as a constant comfort to her. It was during this time that Craig and I began speaking more – mostly about about we thought she was doing and what we could do to help.
Our senior year of college, Craig lived on the upper level of my apartment building. Craig and I started hanging out (he helped me through a break up, we’d watch football together, head to the bars…you know, all the things that friends do). Still zero romantic connection. By the end of the year, I was back into the relationship he had once helped me get over and he was dating someone else, too. So yeah, the photos above are those of friends having a good time – not friends that have interest in dating one another.
Time goes by – and it wasn’t until almost 4 years after Craig and I originally met that I saw him in a different light. Our courtship was long distance, for the most part. We weathered a lot in the 6 months we officially dated. I think it was all of those tribulations that really drew us close to one another and quickly made us realize it was the real deal.
In December of 2011, Craig asked me to be his wife. I think our families were a little surprised (we only dated for 6 months, after all), but we knew. I had known Craig for almost 6 years by that time. I knew who he was when I wasn’t the girl he was trying to “impress.” He served me Manwich for goodness sakes (grossssss).
We were married 9 months after that, in September, 2012.
Marriage is hard. Unfortunately, we’ve weathered a lot of tough stuff in the short 2 1/2 years we’ve been married. Fortunately, we always find our way through it – together. And even more fortunately, we’ve had a lot of happy, happy times over the course of our relationship – most notably the arrival of Eddie in December, 2014.
I love Craig a whole lot. He challenges me and loves me in a way that no one has. Watching him with Eddie…sigh. Let’s just say I didn’t think I could love him any more than I already did – and then we went and had a baby and I love him a bajillion times more.
Don’t give me wrong – we fight with the best of ’em. But, you know what? We love just as hard as we fight. And I wouldn’t have it any other way!
And for the wedding posts – you’ll just have to head to the What Makes Us, Us page.